Erotic Fantasy by Hans-Jürgen Döpp

Author:Hans-Jürgen Döpp [Döpp, Hans-Jürgen]
Language: eng
Format: epub
Tags: Art, Subjects & Themes, Erotica, Human Figure, History, General, Asian, Conceptual
ISBN: 9781783107513
Google: V3GlCgAAQBAJ
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Publisher: Parkstone International
Published: 2015-09-15T00:00:00+00:00

94. Anonymous, 1925.

This hiatus between fantasy and reality is also apparent in Barbara’s account:

“I cannot tell you why, but my fantasy has always been that I like to imagine myself as a naughty girl of about seventeen, hauled up in front of the headmistress for a caning, and that I am wearing the old-fashioned type of gym tunic and Directoire knickers down to my knees. From this stage I like to be told to bend over, after a lecturing, and then get caned with my gym tunic raised, the cane coming on my knickers. Therefore I told my lesbian friend just how far she could go and the date and scene were agreed upon. Naturally I found that the whipping I got with the cane wasn’t half so thrilling as the fantasy and while I had no heart in masturbation with the lesbian woman, it came easily after the punishment. ... All my fantasies are concerned with various methods of being caned and various methods of me giving the cane to someone else. For instance, I would like to be tied hand and foot and then given twelve strokes of the birch but, if this happened, I would probably faint with the awful pain.”

It is also striking that the number and strength of the blows are negotiated. The masochistic situation is one that is staged and controlled. The masochistic position can easily give way to the sadistic one: “being caned and ... various methods of me giving the cane to someone else”. What is important is the situation of power and submission. The positions which are adopted here often seem to be interchangeable.

It would be premature to conclude that the desire for domination is to be ascribed to the yearning for the traditional role of the woman towards the dominant male. A paradox is to be noted here insofar as the more women grow accustomed to their newly won sexual freedom and leave behind their historical role, the more they indulge in fantasies of domination. This is very clearly expressed in Natalie’s account:

“I’m totally at his mercy. I keep saying, ‘What are you going to do with me?’ and he just sits there. Then the fantasy takes one of several courses. Sometimes he loves me all over with his mouth, until I beg him to enter me. Sometimes he enters me without foreplay and seemingly just takes me as if I’m nothing ... Whatever he does, the fantasy ends with him releasing me and hugging me and massaging my sore muscles and my sobbing with relief and thanking him — not for letting me go, but for tying me up! ... I’ve just recently added this [fantasy] to my repertoire but it isn’t quite as powerful as the other. It goes as follows: I manage to tie him to the bed, spread-eagled exactly as I was. This is done by some sort of ‘innocent’ playfulness, like, ‘Darling, show me how to tie that knot. Oh, I see. Let me try...’ and so on.

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